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MTV Reality TV
Monday, April 4, 2011
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General Thoughts
Drinking substantial amounts of alcohol is good for you, especially when it comes time to improve your social status.
Jersey Shore
Well the Jersey Shore phenomenon began on the evening of December 9th, 2009 with 1.375 million viewers, and it has increased dramatically from that point, and still continues to attract viewers. Today, it is considered to be the most viewed series on MTV! The show follows the lives of eight roommates who have spent two summers at a Seaside Heights beach house in Jersey Shore, and a winter in Miami Beach. Their lives are completely dedicated to two "crucial" things, like partying and attracting the opposite sex. It is a reality show, since cameras follow their every move, and absolutely none of it is scripted. This is a bit scary because it makes you wonder if the people on this show are truly like this, or are they putting on "a show"... Nonetheless, this lifestyle is catching on alarmingly quickly, and real or not in the show, it is becoming a reality in our world!
The current cast consists of Deena, Jenni (J-Woww), Mike (The Situation), Nicole (Snookie), DJ (Pauly D), Ronnie, Vinny, and Sammi (Sweetheart). These cast members are of Italian decent, and claim that their show finally unveils the amazing lifestyle of the Italian-Americans, known as the "Guido", in this area. However, there has been a huge amount of controversy from the true Guido people because they don't actually live the way the people in the show do, and find it to be quite offensive. However, this show has also received other controversial reviews from other sources like parents and teachers.
After watching a single scene from this show, you will understand what all the controversy is about. The cast members are in their young twenties, however their actions are being viewed by a number age groups, including teenagers! Unfortunately by watching shows like this, teens are beginning to believe that their lives are going to be as dramatic and exciting as the lives on Jersey Shore if they live the way they do, but don't understand that it's an unhealthy and an unrealistic way to live. For example, parents usually raise their children in a respectable manner with a focus on abstinence, or at least refraining from intercourse until they are truly in love with with the other person. But on this show, the cast members are sleeping with a new person almost every night! So, teens are watching this, and suddenly everything their parents have taught them about safe sex is no longer applicable because the people on Jersey Shore look like they are having a great time, and are not facing any consequences either. So... who's beliefs are they going to follow now; their parents, or the Jersey Shore cast?
Here is an introduction to the show that can be found on MTV's website:
"Grab your hair gel, wax that Cadillac and get those tattooed biceps ready to fist pump with the best this summer at the Jersey Shore. MTV's newest docu-soap exposes one of the tri-state area's most misunderstood species, the Guido. Our Guidos and Guidettes will move into the ultimate beach house rental and indulge in everything the Seaside Heights, New Jersey scene has to offer. Beach by day, dancing and partying all night. They'll live, work, and rage together until the summer ends. There's no spray tan too orange, no hair too spiked, and no bod too tight for this crew. "
So, what is Jersey Shore saying to teens? Well, essentially that life is all about partying and having a good time, and there should be no other responsibilities. It is quite clear that the cast members have an unlimited income that comes from their parents, and their salary from the show because they buy whatever they want, whenever they want. They have absolutely no work ethic and are horrible employees, which can be seen in any of the scenes when they are working at the "Shore T-Shirt Shop" (working at this store is a requirement to be on the show). This show tells teens that it is okay to have poor work ethic, party all night, dance in disrespectful ways, drink large quantities of alcohol, have unsafe sex, cheat on your boyfriends/girlfriends, fight with your roommates, lie to your friends and family... and the list goes on. There really isn't any good lesson that can be learned from watching Jersey Shore, and it's a little frighting how popular this show has become amongst teens. Teens are of course watching this show, and convince themselves it's okay to act this way with no idea of the consequences involved.
Of course the show is aimed at various age groups that range from about 11 to 25. It targets both females and males due to the 4 females and 4 males on the show. An episode has an equal balance between males and females, so both genders remain interested. It is important to note that when a female watches the show, not only is she "checking out" the males for obvious reasons, but she is also looking at the females, and essentially seeing what criteria is needed to attract the opposite sex. Suddenly, being yourself is no longer acceptable, now in order to meet a guy, a girl needs to be tanned, have hair extensions, have breast implants, have flawless skin, and an "hour glass shape"!
There is no question about whether or not the cast members "defy authority"! They show absolutely no respect to themselves, or to the people around them. They are loud and obnoxious and behave in every way that we have learned to be unacceptable throughout our lives. Unfortunately teens, and are future students are watching this show and saying, "hey that looks really fun, I wanna live like that!"
I Used To Be Fat!
Now moving in a completely opposite direction from Jersey Shore to I Used To Be Fat! Yes, the name is a little dramatic, but it is actually a pretty decent show that teaches teens the importance of living healthy, which is definitely not the purpose of Jersey Shore!It premiered December 29th, 2010, and is slowly gaining popularity. It is series that follows overweight teens through their process of losing their unwanted weight by following an effective diet and exercises. Each episode follows one teen who is teamed up with a personal trainer, who helps them to follow their new lifestyle, motivates them, and provide them with emotional support throughout the journey. Throughout the episode, the teen documents their personal thoughts, and shares any struggles and successes they are facing. Most episodes focus on the teen's last summer before beginning college. It's great this this show is showing teens the importance of living a healthy lifestyle, but at the same time... shouldn't we just be teaching students that it's what on the inside that counts, and that physical appearance doesn't matter. Of course we want our kids to be living a healthy lifestyle, so eating healthy and exercising is crucial, which is demonstrated on this show. However, it seems that there is more of a focus on one's physical appearance and how it will help to attract the opposite sex or to be successful in life.
By reading various blog posts, we discovered that many teens and parents consider this show to be very inspiring. It makes sense that it considered to be inspirational, since teens can watch the show and see that it's never too late to make a change to their physical and emotional health. For teens that are not overweight, it reinforces the importance of living healthy, and I think create a sense of compassion since they see what those teens go through on the episode, and will probably be a lot more understanding towards them in the future. It is safe to say that this show targets both females and males, and focusing on the age group of 13 to 18, which are the years of middle school and high school. I think the show intends to target those teens that are struggling with weight issues, but targets a wide variety of body types. Of course no matter what the body type, the teens are learning about the importance of living a healthy lifestyle, which is good. It's just important that teens understand that physical appearance is not everything... and I don't think that this lesson is sticking out in their minds.
So what is the message of this show? As already mentioned, this show is telling teens that living healthy is important. A healthy lifestyle can be achieved by eating nutritious and exercising on a daily basis. However, the message from this show is a little bit skewed because it teaches teens that physical appearance is everything, and that their lives will be miserable if they don't change their lifestyle soon. Yes, it's important to eat healthy and workout to remain healthy, but it seems that the show is a little unrealistic in this area. The teen is working out about 4 hours per day, and not allowed to eat any "treats". In my opinion this teaches teens that in order to be healthy and look good you need to completely dedicate yourself to it, and this lifestyle is not realistic, especially with how busy teens are today. Of course it is important to remember that teens don't necessarily control what they eat, they eat what their parents cook them, and they can't really go to they gym unless their parents are driving them there or buying them their gym membership... so maybe this show should be more directed at parents instead of teens!?
The healthy lifestyle that is promoted in this show is definitely attainable to an extent, but the show exaggerates the process somewhat. I think teens may struggle to understand the real reason for living a healthy lifestyle. The show clearly focuses on the importance of looking physically good, and makes a very little effort to discuss the emotional benefits.
I don't think the teens featured in the show either respect or defy authority. Their only concern is working to improve their body so that others look at them differently. They constantly make comments on the show about their appearance, and they feel that's the reason why they don't have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It's quite sad how our society has made teens feel that appearance is everything! So yes, at first glance, this show seems great... but when looking more into it - it's pretty clear that it's sending teens a skewed message and once again, it's not what on the inside that matters anymore!
Sunday, April 3, 2011
Teen Mom
My Super Sweet 16
The episode that I watched is "Margaret Ann's Carnival of Delights". It features Margaret Ann, a spoiled rotten beauty queen whose divorced parents give her everything she wants, including a BMW convertible and over $1700 worth of clothes in one shopping trip. She decides to have the biggest party South Carolina has ever seen, complete with a live band, acrobats and an extra party simply to hand out the invitations to those who work for it and don't have a chance of showing her up on her big day. Even that isn't enough for this princess, she gets her parents to hire a limousine to take her and her friends for custom made designer dresses for the big event. During the party she whines and even starts to cry because she's tired of people taking her picture. She cheers up though when she sees the brand new Hummer and matching jet ski she is gifted by Mom and Dad.
This show (at least this episode) is mainly aimed at teen girls , with the pretty dresses and beautiful girls. Margaret Ann repeatedly describes herself as "perfect", which to me is dangerous for girls to be watching. With the epidemic of body image problems and eating disorders in North America I don't think we need more shows featuring blond, skinny bubble heads as an image of perfection. The entire show is shallow, focusing on money, glamour and beauty as things to strive towards. I don't think this show either deserves or receives any respect, its not entertaining, no values are shared (at least not any worth sharing) and nothing is learned. What I don't understand is why anyone would watch it. The show is easily understandable, even by my youngest daughter. What isn't understandable is why anyone would choose to watch it. At least the majority of today's teens have a better understanding of what's important than Margaret Ann does. They may even be more intelligent than the producers who thought up the idea for the show. As my 13 year old daughter said as the show ended, "I can't believe I just wasted 30 minutes of my life watching that!" I completely agree.
My Super Sweet 16: Official Site
The Buried Life
The premise of the show implies some really great values for middle school kids. Themes of doing things for others, being true to yourself and trying new things are all messages that some kids really need to hear in our self-absorbed society. The show appears to be geared towards 14-20 year olds, of both genders. Guys would be attracted to the list, which features some pretty crazy things (Go down a mountain on a long board anyone?) The girls would probably like the guys themselves; they are attractive and funny. The show is easily accessible to kids, it airs weekly on MTV. I think it would appeal to the "bad boy/girl in kids....they are doing things that people talk about but people rarely do in real life. Despite being touted as a move away from the superficial, many of the items on their list are just that. Things like making a million dollars and throwing the "most badass party ever" are hardly things that will change the world. There are some moments that are good, however. The boys do try to help others, from building a skateboard ramp for a local skate park to helping to rebuild a church that was destroyed by a hurricane. Unfortunately these moments on the show are tacked to a 1-2 minute spot at the end, almost as an afterthought.
All in all this show was marginally enjoyable to watch. Given the synopsis I had read prior to viewing, I was disappointed. I think the show is a great idea that falls short of its intentions and ends up not much different than most of MTV's reality fare.
The Buried Life: Official Website